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It’s been about a month since JLo’s movie This is Me … Now came out. I watched it.
I must admit the slow down of COVID-19 lock-down was a welcome break, albeit I was still working (grateful). However I didn’t have to tackle the morning commute – traffic or subway breakdowns. There was stillness in the air, a calm energy that was different. I could hear the birds chirping in the mornings – they were the main performance not relegated to the background of the…
By Dr. Stephen de Wit
What is the sexiest thing about a woman? What do men want? How can I turn my partner on? These questions are a staple of my life as a sexologist and seem to be permanently tattooed on the inner walls of women’s minds, and for good reason. The answer is not something easy to obtain, it is not something on your body that can be augmented or reduced, it is not a…
Sure it is kind of strange for a sexologist to be saying forget about your sex life. Shouldn’t I be saying have more sex? Probably, but I rarely do what I’m supposed to do…it keeps life interesting. In an effort to get people to look at how they relate to their partners differently, changing the focus from sex to eroticism is often the shift that is necessary.
Often people will allow…
“It’s a foot long, hard as a rock and will knock your socks off” – the myth of the penis. Men and women have come to expect so much from this organ that when it does not “perform” up to its expected proficiency there is great weeping and gnashing of teeth. Well maybe not weeping and gnashing but some serious anxiety usually results.
As an adolescent the issue is not getting it up…
If you’ve ever attended one of my workshops or educational seminars, you’ll know that one of the first rules of sex is lube, lube, lube! Along with an open mind and honest communication, lube is fundamental to both safety and pleasure. There is just so much more you can do in terms of stroking, pulsing, squeezing, twisting, rubbing and kissing when you’re both nice and wet.
Not only does…
We have been taught that sex is something that can only be discussed in certain areas, with certain people or groups and at certain times – from a young age we have been wired to withhold. It is no wonder it is difficult to talk about sex with our partners! Today, right now, is the time to rewire, reboot and resuscitate your sex life.
It is strange that something that so definitively and…
