By Stephen de Wit
If you have read the Sex Negotiations – 101 article you are half way there. Now the second and for some people the most challenging part: How to communicate with your partner, well let me correct that, how to communicate well about sex with your partner. We are in a constant state of communication, through body language, silence, moans, grunts, screams, arguments and…
Should you tell your new love interest … the truth
We are a culture consumed by numbers. We just love to measure, count and quantify everything: money, cars, homes, dates, waistlines, trophies, Facebook friends, minutes, miles per gallon, calories. So it should come as no surprise that lovers are no exception.
While counting partners may seem like no big deal, the associated pressure and…
Eat Your Fatty Acids Because Your Body Needs Them
Fat is a substance made from the molecules of hydrogen, carbon and a little oxygen. What kind of fat it is depends on the different combinations of these molecules.
There are twenty different needed fatty acids in your body, but they are all made from two: linoleic acid and linolenic acid. These two fatty acids are essential. You must get them from…
Let’s face it. Our bodies love to mess with us. And for men who lose their erection at an inopportune time, the stress and embarrassment can be overwhelming. But it doesn’t have to be.
Every guy is going to have to deal with losing his erection at some point in time and you can rest assured that it has nothing to do with you. It’s not your body, your touch or your technique that is keeping…
Do you know what you really want?
Ladies your time has come – and men need your help. We are now in what I like to call the pleasure evolution. Sex can be an expression of deep love, commitment and passion for a single person. Or it can be an expression of independence, power and prowess as a woman towards multiple partners. Is one better than the other? I don’t know… you tell…
In a perfect world, you wouldn’t need to fake orgasms for your own sake or your partner’s. But the reality is almost all women have pretended to climax at some point and many of these performances have been Oscar-worthy. That’s right. Women are obviously skilled at faking the Big-O and their male partners are buying whatever they’re selling.
The recently published National Survey of Sexual…
By Sabrena Salahudeen
This tropical fruit is a staple in all tropical countries and is making waves in the weight-loss industry. The coconut tree itself can be used for so many purposes ranging from roofing material, clothing and floor mats, to food, milk and an edible oil source. This fruit is renown for its sweet, nutty flavour that has a nurturing effect on the body.
Used locally for childhood…
How much sex is normal?
As a sexologist, I hear this question often from singles, couples, men, women, youth, older adults and everyone in between. And my clients are often disappointed in the answer. Ultimately, it is up to you to decide what works for you and your partners if they are a part of the picture.
Sexual compatibility within a relationship involves balancing your needs with those of…
By Stephen de Wit
The age-old question: Is bigger better? Rages on. And there is no right answer. It is whatever your preference is. Some women like feeling “full” or “stretched” by their partner’s penis and some women like the depth of penetration.
Some men like tight. The basics of it are simple. A tighter vaginal canal increases the friction of the penis in the vagina. …
If you read my columns or follow my blog, you’ll see that I tend to avoid euphemisms when it comes to sex and body parts. I believe that using accurate terminology around issues of sexuality helps to avoid ambiguity and also conveys the message that sex and our bodies are not something that should be shrouded in shame. But I often hear from clients and readers that they’re not always familiar…
